Sep 10, 2008

The Curse of Beauty

The problem with beautiful women is that they have power over something they didn't achieve. Try to see the world through their eyes. At first, you're gonna be surprised why they're praising you for something you didn't earn (your beauty). It's rather awkward in the beginning, but as it keeps going on and on, you start to convince yourself that maybe you are virtuous for your beauty. You realize that:

1. this gives you power
2. you have monopoly over less attractive girls, no matter how smart or virtuous they are.

That aspect essentially corrupts you because you realize that there's no need to be virtuous. You already have tons of guys competing for you. You can be a total bitch and still get away with it. And this is your revenge. Men who discriminate on looks do deserve to be treated badly because they are in a way what causes this vicious circle of corruption. But now it's too late for you to develop a personality, because you're too caught up in a slave scenario, where you love being the victim and proving guys to be pigs.

Better appearance doesn't necessarily mean greater confidence. Because, as I mentioned above, most pretty chicks feel depressed because they're not loved for who they are. And what's frustrating is that they have been too crippled to really expand. They don't have any self-confidence left: they only create the illusion of one. But of course, that does in no way mean that less attractive girls are automatically virtuous, especially if they believe that being pretty is a virtue and try hard to be sexy.

When you're not loved for who you are, and rather for your looks, you subconsciously might start to believe that there's something fundamentally wrong about yourself. And with that in mind, there's no possibility you could ever have self-confidence. Beauty is irrelevant in the cases where one does not present themselves in such way. For example, if a woman claims that a man shouldn't love a less-attractive than her woman, then obviously she's putting herself in "court" where she, too, should be judged by her looks. A confident woman is only intimidating to a weak man. Some women mistake confidence with aggressiveness, and later they wonder why no man wants them.

There's no need to try and fool yourself that a certain part of your body is prettier than you think. The simple act of accepting your own body for what it is will make you more confident and calm.